Sex with Strangers

I admire those who can have sex without intimacy. I'm talking about all the males I know and or have had, um...relations with. They seem to revel in the act of getting their rocks off without having to know anything more about the other person than their name. (ok, not ALL, and quite a few of them grew out of it and settled down into long term relationships, but good grief could most of em just hop in and out of bed without a moment's hesitation or look back when they left).

There was a time in my life when I made casual sex the benchmark of independence. I was the epitome of self-empowered becau